No matter which one of the relationship stages you're in, your woman will open wide to you sexually only when you learn how to turn her on. What this means, is being able to connect with her at a mental and emotional level. Engage her in a way that values her as a person. Engage her in a way that shows her you understand her wants and needs.
But if you don’t know how to turn her on, she will only go through the motions (at best), no matter how knowledgeable of female anatomy you are, how sophisticated your technique of finding the G spot and how many love making positions you master.
Better love making starts with doing something to help her unwind and connect with her heart. Dim the lights, put on soft, relaxing music, lighten up some candles, massage her upper back, or draw her a warm bath.
Then, when you initiate the intercourse, do it slowly and tenderly; let it fall into gear with the rhythm of your regular breathing. Because much of sexuality is based on rhythmic movement, better love making means to unify its pacing with the tempo of your breathing for increased pleasure for both of you.
Then, when you initiate the intercourse, do it slowly and tenderly; let it fall into gear with the rhythm of your regular breathing. Because much of sexuality is based on rhythmic movement, better love making means to unify its pacing with the tempo of your breathing for increased pleasure for both of you.
As excitement grows, your pacing will naturally increase creating a rhythm that takes you both into a trance state. Allow yourself to go deeper into this state as you increase the speed and intensity steadily and as the breathing of your partner unifies with your own.
Start sleeping in the nude.
If you're usually a head-to-toe flannel woman, take it in small steps: a tank and shorts, then just a tee, and so on until you're completely nude. Once you get over the nakedness of it, the feeling of having nothing on is actually powerful and potent — and may even lead to sexier dreams, not to mention a more tantalizing nighttime cuddle...or more.
The Breath of Fire
Use this before or during lovemaking to get you in the mood or increase arousal, especially if you're having trouble reaching orgasm. There's no simpler way to oxygenate the blood, a process that increases sexual energy and elevates desire. Take rapid, rhythmic and shallow breaths through the nose. Keep your mouth closed. Breathe this way for one to three minutes.
When it comes to performing oral sex on him, don't focus only on porn star-style suction. You can do a lot with just your tongue. Flatten your tongue and pretend you are licking a delicious ice cream cone. Then try the "pointy-tongue" technique to stroke up and down and side to side. Do different strokes and touches, like flicking your tongue over the head, and see what kind of response you get.
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Try to avoid the routines of eating, sleeping or shopping together because sex starts long before you reach the bedroom.
Try to avoid the routines of eating, sleeping or shopping together because sex starts long before you reach the bedroom.
Be upfront about your different sexual needs and rhythms.
Problems often arise when one partner is more interested in sex or sensual pleasure than the other. Knowing such differences can be based on the other brain circuitry can help. With this understanding one partner is less likely to feel personally rejected when the other acts uninterested.
What could be more symbolic of the trust and intimacy in a relationship than the act of taking your clothes off, lying down and falling asleep in the same bed with another person? Try to let go of all the tension of the day, and regard bedtime as a temporary ceasefire from any arguments.
Plan to have sex
Some people believe love making should be totally spontaneous, but family life can get so busy that it may never happen. Is there a specific, regular time during the day that you can plan to be together รข€“ maybe the weekend when the kids are off at music lessons, or during a lunch hour.
Share fantasies
You are not required to tell all, but sharing can be fulfilling. And fantasies are by definition the free play of the creative imagination.
Making love is one of the easiest ways to remind your partner just how much you love and desire them and can be very reassuring, especially when time or the monotony of everyday life has taken its toll. It’s nothing less than human to want for the naked touch and is totally natural to go through spurts in our lives when we have everything else on our minds but that. As long as you remember sex is important and vital for the state of your relationship, it’s never too late to help making love make a comeback in your relationship!
You will learn :-
- 4 different methods to help stop him from finishing too early
- 24 tips and techniques to give a woman's clitoris more pleasure… she'll thank you over and over again after giving her these gifts of pleasure
- How to make a woman more comfortable in the nude with the lights on… don't be surprised if she wants to do it with the lights on more often after this
- A simple 'trick' to feel more pleasure wearing a condom while still being safe Hint: It's not wearing a thinner one!
- Ever stopped making love because you're too tired or unfit? This sex position on page 76 shows how to use less energy so you can keep the passion alive longer
- The best light bulb color to intensify orgasms… And no, it's NOT red!
- A simple position that gives better access to hit her G-spot… increase the chances of her screaming your name in ecstasy with this little maneuver
- 21 tips and techniques to give a man more pleasure during oral sex
- How to make your man's facial hair softer… enjoy pain-free and itch-free kissing while being intimate with your man
- A little short? That's okay… this little 'trick' will make her feel you deeper and increase her level of pleasure
- Can't get in the mood? No worries, tip #34 on page 16 will help fix that problem
- A simple technique to give him more pleasure with your hand
- How to get the kinds of kisses you've always wanted from your man without saying a single word… avoid crushing his sexual confidence and self-esteem using this tip
- A unique way to use perfume and colognes that can get your partner in the mood faster
- 10 illustrated sex positions with descriptions to spice up your lovemaking…
- 6 adventurous sex positions with foreplay tips, descriptions and pictures
- A sex game you can play while watching TV… And no, It's NOT watching porn!
- A striptease is a great way to excite your partner but do it wrong and it could kill the mood… here's 7 keys to a great striptease to drive your partner wild!
- The 3 DO's and DON'Ts of preparing a striptease for your partner
- A unique way to top off a lovemaking session that could make it a truly unforgettable experience… you'll wonder why you never thought of this before
- Two smells that can instantly increase penile blood flow by up to 40%
- The biggest mistakes guys make giving oral sex …please her with this oral sex tip instead
- 9 scented oils that are said to increase sexual arousal
- The best way to increase your natural sexual drive
- The month a man's testosterone peaks… this is the perfect time to go on a romantic vacation
- A SUPER FOOD that can increase your sexual drive, sexual potency, fertility and even energy levels
- The 'window of opportunity' during a woman's cycle when she's most likely to climax… time it right and she could enjoy it much more
- And Hundreds more love making tips!
